Did I make the right call? I’m still not sure.
When I wrote last week’s email, I almost included a reference to a bit by a comedian I find hilarious. The comedian is controversial and not the worst guy in the world, but maybe not a great one either. I don’t actually know, but he was cancelled a few years ago. You see where this is going.
What if people judged me for referencing him? What if they assumed I endorsed everything he’s ever done or said? I asked a couple of my trusted insiders for their input – they said leave it out. So I did.
And then it started eating at me.
Is art the artist?
Is a reference to a comedy bit the same as endorsing the person?
Is it the right choice because our brand doesn’t endorse his brand?
If we all start watering down what we put out there, do we all become the same?
Isn’t diversity of thinking the basis for all progress?
How do we stay true to ourselves without unknowingly offending someone or everyone? Obviously, I’m still figuring it out, but here’s where I’ve landed:
- Be a good person – whatever that means for you. For me that’s kind, open, curious and not easily offended.
- Put yourself out there – the world needs more you, not more ‘everyone.’
- Stop trying to please everyone – this one’s tough for me because I really like to be liked.
- Remember ‘real’ and ‘perfect’ don’t exist together.
And maybe…we could all work at being a little less offended all the time? Besides, if we all agreed on everything…I can’t think of a more boring dinner party.
If, at the end of this email, you’re dying to know the comedian and the bit, email mary@onprpose.com and I’ll send you the link.
